Have you ever fallen in love at the first sight of someone?
Was there instant chemistry between you?
Did the world suddenly get brighter and more wonderful just with their presence?
Perhaps it is everything we’ve learned in our lifetime (up to that point) that helps us make those type of snap-decisions. We all understand the instant attraction of physical attributes; beautiful eyes, masculine chest or full, silky hair.
But how can we make snap-decisions about the person’s inner qualities? Can we decide in a five-minute conversation if this is the person with whom we want to spend the rest of our lives? I think we can at least gather some important impressions about that person in five minutes.
Does that person want to only talk about themselves? Are they rude when someone interrupts your conversation? Do they seem to be too-good-to-be-true? These things, and tons of others, can raise some very important flags when it comes to choosing a mate. Once you’ve eliminated the obvious ‘wrong people for you’ the ocean now becomes a lake in which to fish for your one and only.
Have you experienced falling in love at first sight? Do you believe it’s possible? I’d love to hear your thoughts…